Thank you Bruce:
Most interesting, for I also knew not where his wife, Alice Powers was buried. She died 1860 shortley after going to Litte Rock where John Baker was president of new St Johns' College (school Solon Borland help create and where Colonel Oliver Crosby Gray served 1868-1874).
Her portrait is in Arkansas Gazette, 30 Sept 1934, part II article by Lucy Marion Reaves, page 3, col 1.
An interesting 1871 bio by his school mate:
JOHNSON, Reverend John Lipscomb (1835-1915): The University Memorial: Biographical Sketches of Alumni of theUniversity of Virginia who fell in ConfederateWar;1871.
a)- (THOMPSON: pages 98 to 108,
<http://books.google.com/books?id=dqkgAAAAMAAJ&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq>