Though you didn't say so, I presume you're joking about the remarks directed at women. We have many outstanding and important female contributors to these message boards. If you are aware of a specific problem with the display of Civil War artifacts at a museum, I suggest you criticize those responsible individually, rather than, assigning their failings to an entire gender.
The rhetoric on this message board has been a little harsh lately. I hope we will limit our criticisms to the arguments and leave out any personal remarks.