Yes, that was me. I attended the reenactment at Craig Ranch in McKinney Texas last weekend. Historical "Granny" and her family was our neighbor across the street from 1979 until they moved to McKinney, Texas about 1994. She is from Missouri and is related to Col. John T.Coffee.
John T. Coffee was married four times and has descendents everywhere from Missouri to Texas. His last wife's ex-husband was killed by a bolt of lightning!