Oh, I do understand what you are speaking of.
My long lost cousin from Texas had such a ceremony arranged for our
shared gg grandfather and it was wonderful. I appreciated it so much.
Those volunteers who came and did it for the family, did us a great kindness. So as a child of the CSA as well as a descendant of the person for whom such a good deed was done, I can closely relate to how the family felt.
Take care and Happy 4th to all.
Linda