Thank Ms Sinek. After three years, I was beginning to think I had reached a dead end. JW Wilder was my great grand father as well. My great grand mother was Alice Rebecca Reed ( I believe he had several). My grand mother was Bessie Florence Wilder. She married my grand father, John W Duett and they lived and raised their family in Neshoba County. My family name is spelled several ways, Duett,Duette, Dewett. Perhaps you know some of them. Many of them still live in and around Neshoba County. If you want to compare family notes or share info please contact me. My wife has acquired a pretty good amount of info. My cousin who lives in Decatur and a niece in El Paso have similar info as well. My email is: wduette@sbcglobal.net. I'd love to hear from you.