Mr. Rushing ,
As stated in my top post, I thought I had found the burial site for his wife, my gg-aunt(?) butI saw I was wrong. It was my intention to have a maker put by her grave, but now that option seems to be out. I guess if I am able to get the info together to get a stone from the VA, I will have it placed by the local SCV group in the Okolona cemetery.
Thanks for all your help.