Like it or not, majority rules but the minority does have its rights. That being said, sometimes it just doesn't work out for the minority. It sounds like you're griping over the fact that its unfair that the tail can't wag the dog whenever it gets a mind to.
The process of American government is to work a majority through legal means, but picking up the gun because you don't get your way is, like Matt said, un-American. I might even call it fascism. The South sowed the wind and reaped the whirlwind, all your fancy rhetoric aside.