I agree. One lesson that should have been learned by all is what could happen to the family. It wasn't just a government issue, it was real people who lost in the end.
My 'inhuman' side says 'Truman' Iraq and get it over but the other side of me says that is not quite the American way. It would turn us into what we object to with 'them'. The CW was the most difficult for us to accept because it was all 'ours' so to speak.