I agree jim, for the most part and i know my family were verry good and God fearing people. they did not beat their kids or their wives, but still i have a hang up about older men marrying verry young girls,,,its just not right.
These people were gone long before I was born, i only know what the old people told me,and from the writings of my gg aunt it was her mother that had to marry my gg grandfather, he was 20 years older than her, she was never happy.

I guess after the war most of the young men were gone, so
i guess thats just the way it was.