John, I've known Pam a long time and she was defending what she percieved to be an unfair attack. I know for a fact Pam would not have defended those comments had she seen them.

Pam, John was deeply hurt by those comments and was defending all of us. What was written was very demeaning to all of us, Reb or Yank.

I know both of you to be good people. May I ask then that we, meaning you two and myself, put this behind us and just drop it. I don't have enough friends to sacrifice any to a misunderstanding. A misunderstanding was all this was.