That is the most difficult part of any civil discussion to get across. No one now cheers for the fall of the flag. Had the South not been invaded with a vengance we probably would feel different during that era. No matter how one views the acts, and believes should have been done, it's history now. Cannot change it but we can correct it. That is all we really are trying to do. The hit and run post that insult us are the reason we may react to another that isn't really trying to be insulting.
Pam