Jamie...sorry for your loss and he loss of a "Real Son". The Lieutenant Dickerson L. Baker Camp 926, where I originally joined the Sons of Confederate Veterans had a "Real Son" as a member. I have not read of his death, hopefully he is still living. I moved out of that jurisdiction several years ago.
Those of us who are getting much older find it necessary to visit a cemetery to visit our friends.
One of these days we will join them and have a grand reunion "Tenting on the Old Camp Ground".