The point I was trying to make is that it isn't "my" thinking that counts here, that it is what THEY thought about the conditions THEY witnessed in THEIR own time that matters. Lee was there, I wasn't, if he saw a need I think his insights most certainly trump mine.
What is funny to me now, though, is that to my mind you and I were just casually batting around some ideas, I wasn't taking a"my position is what counts, yours doesn't" tone, at least that is the way I was reading our exchange. In fact I very much have enjoyed your posts, until this last one about "now you get it".
In fact I thought one of your ideas in the other post so good and so thought provoking i was going to suggest you post it to the top as a new topic. It was a great idea you had Pam, and you had me thinking about what you said for quite a while. You had presented the idea about "was it worth it?" . And I thought it a very interesting thing to propose.
When I was reading you in a such positive manner, however, I guess given this last bit from you, that I was the one who didn't "get it".
This board seems to have a lot of "victimhood" built into in it or something. I really think I am done.