Some of you already know, and I haven't 'talked' about it yet on the boards but I had to design and order our grave marker. I lost my best friend and husband (of 47 years) in June to cancer. All of you have 'heard' me say I'd have a Battle Flag when I made my exit. When I got the call a couple of days ago the marker was in and had been placed I flew out to the cemetery. On my side, under my name, in bronze is a Battle Flag. My family and friends said that was just what they expected from "the family Rebel" and they liked it. I hope in some future generation there will be at least one person who is interested in the family tree. The symbols and the words on the marker should give them a clue to what we thought important and we make no apology for it.
Pam