Lukasz, I wrote an article on General Tochman for my book, "More Generals in Gray". The VA state marker doesn't give the exact location of the grave and, so far as I know, it is unmarked and unknown. His will requested that he be buried in the western hill fronting his home. The will also mentions his niece Catherine Starzynski in Poland. I you ever find the exact date of birth of Tochman or Sulakowski, let me know.