Claiborne,
If you're not already, you should consider membership in the William Clarke Quantrill society. In this group are others like yourself who are descended from members of Quantrill's command, and others who are sympathetic.
Check them out at:

http://www.geocities.com/quantrillsoc/index.html

They seem to be a fairly energetic group and have a Quantrill reunion each year. Last year, or the year before, they had it at Lawrence, Kansas.