Ed --

If she was living, James I Robertson would have interviewed her for his comprehensive biography. You will need to find time to read this complete treatment of Jackson's life.
http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/98475.Stonewall_Jackson

There are passages in the book by Burke Davis that I can still cite from memory. That's because he had a great knack for turning a phrase. However, Robertson's epic biography is far better on the details and a full accounting of Jackson's life.