Pam,
I didn't read your posting and am not commenting on the content of "O-Day's" remarks. There is no "free speech" on these sites. The message boards and their content are regulated and messages can be deleted, redacted or moved at mine and the other moderators discretion. I'm just stating this, so we don't have any misunderstandings in the future that I/we, the administrators of these message boards, make decisions based on the health and performance of these sites, not on constitutional rights of freedom speech or freedom of expression.
Jim