Headquarters Armies of the U.S.
Culpepper, VA.

April 8th, 1864

Dear Brother Nic:

I was at home on the first of the month and spent between 2 and 3 hours. I regretted very much that Father was so low. In my opinion it is extremely doubtful whether he ever recovers.

The appearance of things about home pleased me. I am inclined to believe however, that it is too great a tax upon your time, patience and business to expect you to look after my home and interests. I therefore gave Carrie directions to use her judgement and do the best she could. I think she can get along. Yet it would be gratifying to me if you could now and then look in upon her and give such advice as may seem necessary to her success. But if your time is completely taken up with your personal interests, of course this kindness and courtesy cannot be expected. It is an old rule that charity begins at home, and in my experience with the world, I find that this maxim is generally lived up to. And that it is so cannot be complained of by anyone. When ever you can I wish you would help our folks at home in advance. I do not know when I shall get out of the Army, and situated as I am, I cannot give much attention to home matters, family matters I men, for Indian Affairs I have fully eschewed.

Before long a great battle will be fought in this vicinity and I am of the opinion that it will be the bloodiest battle yet fought in this war. We intend to have Richmond taken and the backbone of the rebellion broken before the next anniversary of American Independence. Keep close watch and see how much of a prophet I am. Great preparations are being made for a good opening of the Spring Campaign. Our Headquarters is 6 miles from the Rapidan, which is the present dividing line between us and the rebels. It is an ugly stream but we are bound to cross it before long. My health is good. My regards to your family and to Mr. And Mrs. Wright.

From your brother, E.S. Parker