I'm still searching for the grave site of my great great grandfather, John Anderson Clayton, who died at Pollard, Alabama, in October 1863.
I think it's great that you are so knowledgeable about your family and history and are so willing to help others along the way. Many people on this site contribute so much. I so wish that I had 'listened' more while my parents were living. I know that the searching would be much easier now had I done that.
Carolyn