The Vermont birth listing for James Ryder on the July 1, 1863 draft record as age 28 is problematic..There seems not to be another one in that area, except, the one married to Talitha/Tilitha in Livingston Co, MO per marriage records, etc..Have not located him on the 1860 Census..

I don't know if James Rider on 1870 Esmeralda Co, Nevada Census that was listed as age 30, born VT-Miner is the same one..Age is off..
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Here's a bit more on Talitha/Tilitha Alice (Winkler) Rider/Ryder..She had remarried in 1868..

James W. Rider was accused of killing Michael West July 1862--(could have been same Michael West that was Talitha/Tilitha's step father)-(mother Milly remarried again)

Name:Mrs. Milly West
Marriage Date: 10 May 1864
Marriage County: Livingston
Spouse Name: Mr. George Forester
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Name:Mr. Sebron Sneed (married to Mary Goodman 1st)
Marriage Date: 16 Jul 1868
Marriage Location: Livingston, Missouri
Marriage County: Livingston
Spouse Name: Mrs. Tilitha Alice Rider
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Sebron & Talitha/Tilitha Sneed were listed on the 1870 Livingston Co, MO Census & the 1880 Daviess Co, MO Census