S.A.A. I can help you with that. I am a member of SHAPE one of my duties is to help folks like you acquire VA funded grave markers for Confederate Soldiers free of charge. They are delivered to your door in about 6-8 weeks after I submit your application.
Just need details on your ancestor.
You may visit our new site which by the way is still under construction so pardon our progress when you enter. SHAPE
http://southernheritageadvancementpreservationeducation.com
I remain your loyal Southern Servant,
Mark