If they are in the 1860 census, it must be under a wrong last name, such things have happened !! Any way, thanks for the info. I have searched off n' on for 8 years ~ you just might see something I missed.
I never thought I would learn of another sibling, (Margaret.) Her descendant sent me an email last month with the family story that James H Cassady had been taken prisoner from their home by the Army, they never saw him again. SO, I started searching civil war records again. Without an age, residence or last address in records for the soldier I did find, I think I'm out of luck learning if he is my gg grandfather. But, I haven't given up!!!
Bette