But... it could even be argued that oblesse oblige has not died, it is in fact a long-standing American tradition. Graveyards around the world are filled with young Americans who gave their lives that others might be free. It doesn't get any more "noblesse" than that. The whole concept of "giving back" is uniquely American. We've been so blessed that we want to share our good fortune with the less fortunate, in the practice often misguidedly and usually to our own disadvantage.