Your analysis is based on pure fantasy and "what ifs" formed from current popular social ideals and NOT 1860s U.S. mind thought.

Look what happened after the war and to who. Look at the history from a fact based point of view and not an emotional one. Look at the actions and not the speeches, myths and propaganda.

I suggest reading every daily newspaper from the North and South for the years 1859 and 1860 and you will come out with a whole different view than what you formed.