Pam, this is like the old line in Shakespeare, "there is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so." I can't quite believe that. Think there are standards. You have to call the bad stuff, when people are messing up. Applies to us, and even people who don't think like us. Their cultures may be different, but right and wrong isn't. And we know that from "the Owner and Operator's Manual of the Universe."