I never disputed that both sides had a share of blame. My bone was with it was mostly us. With all the bad stuff that's going on today, I will still side with us by saying that most of the bad stuff in the world is by them. YOu might say it's a family thing. YOu got your warts, but those of others is worse...lol
If I couldn't think that, my consienece would force me to move elsewhere.