But John's point was that you can't paint the picture of abuses with too broad a brush, and I agree. There were numerous cases where commanders of U.S. troops protected civilian property and court-martialed (and even executed) violators. Cases can be found where U.S. troops actively assisted southern civilians with rations and other supplies.
On the other side of the coin, the record is full of reports of Confederate troops stealing from their own civilians -- "descended like a plague of locusts" was a phrase often used -- not to mention more heinous crimes, such as murder and rape. You should look at some of the Confederate court-martial summaries available in print and in the archives. It'll make your eyes pop. And that doesn't include the barbarous activities of southern guerrillas, home guards and other irregular units.
As you said, war does things to soldiers. War provides soldiers with the opportunity to display noble self-sacrifice and heroism, as well as an opportunity to engage in abject depravity. And war is an equal-opportunity employer, affecting the soldiers of both sides.