Might I suggest that we disengage. I tend to agree with the position that for this site, at least, we need citations and sources for a valid historical discussion. I believe family stories are important, but they need to be mixed with documentation. Within my own family, we have a number of stories and views that have proven to be inaccurate or heavily embellished. Even today, when confronted with "evidence", some of my family choose to perpetuate the family stories.
If you gentlemen would like to conduct more of an opinion-based or non-sourced discussion, our "News and Views Open Discussion Forum" is an ideal place to go.
http://history-sites.com/cgi-bin/bbs53x/nvcwmb/webbbs_config.pl
Thanks,
Jim