Yessir, the tories do have a lot to be proud of. If you look at loyalist regiments like the Queens' Rangers, Kings Royal Regt of NY, Tarleton's Legion, Cortlandt Skinner's NJ Volunteers, you find a lot to be proud of. They were solid fighting men who generally prevailed in their contests with the indigenous rabble.
Most Tories left the country. Most were not fat cats either, and many did not have the luck that yours did in getting the crown to help them get reestablished after losing everything in support of the old flag. especially getting paid off in OH or wherever was a nice touch.
But actually the tories have more in common with the rebels of 61-65. Both constatnly self-adulate on their glorious feats of military derring do, amounting in the final analysis to absolutely nothing.