Jamie
One of my 5th cousins was Benjamin Hardin Helms of Kentucky. Who was the Brother-in-law of Abraham Lincoln. And another southerner Like LEE, who refused a General's Commission from his Brother-in-law to join the southern cause.
My wife had a couple of 4th Cousins one by the name of LEE and another by the name of ARMISTEAD. And yes we are talking about cousins Robert and Lewis.